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KokosDaddy
11-04-2007, 04:00 PM
Minky Minks - How it All Began:

A few years ago, we’d had ferrets - but they were all store-bought. We fussed over them every day for hours on end. We had no contact with other ferret organizations or any legalization groups, and just happily cared for our fuzzy kids without a care in the world. I had recently left a job that I had been at for 10 years and was starting a new job in a totally different field. My wife and I had only just recently reconciled and I was a relatively new ferret owner and learning as much as I could, as fast as I could. It was a few months after I had started at this new job that a co-worker said something about his room mate’s girlfriend having a ferret that she could no longer care for. Nothing more was said for about a month, and then I asked him if she wanted to find her ferret a new home. A meeting was set and my wife and I drove to an apartment in Los Angeles.

When we got to the apartment, we found an old cage with rusty bars that had once been white. Hanging in the cage was a tattered and very dirty hammock with broken plastic clips. In the bottom of the cage, was clay cat litter – but it had since turned to a hard moldy pliable mess that had about ½-inch of standing liquid – urine. The food bowl was full, but dirty and the water looked like it had been sitting for a few days at least. Standing at one corner of the cage was a ferret named Minky. The ferret had a pot belly and no hair on him except for the hair on his head. He had so little hair in fact, that we could not tell what color he would be if he was fully furred. After swallowing hard several times, and letting the ferret’s owner say good bye, we loaded up everything into our vehicle – stench and all, and drove back home with the bald, stinky ferret with feces crusted onto his feet, tail and belly.

On the drive home, I had never smelled such a stinky animal before. We stopped at a trash dumpster to get rid of the cage and all of the nastiness inside of it. There wasn’t any use in keeping it, since the rust had destroyed any hope of ever getting the cage clean again. When I got back into the truck, the smell was still there. We got home, and immediately cleaned Minky up. The smell he had been living in was so bad, it took a few gentle baths to make his skin pink and clean again, and to get the crusted feces off of him. Due to the studying I had done, I knew exactly why Minky was bald all over and what it would take to make him look and act like a normal ferret again. You see, adrenal disease presents itself as tumors on the adrenal glands which are located in front of the kidneys and usually affect ferrets over the age of two years of age.

After a call to our wonderful vet – we set up an appointment for him to go in for an adrenalectomy. An adrenalectomy is a surgery where they remove one or both of a ferret’s adrenal glands that have become infected or cancerous. If you can catch it early enough and the tumor can be removed without complications – a ferret can lead a normal healthy lift again. –This is what we had planned for Minky. – So off to the vet we went, with a cleaned up bald Minky in a carrier full of soft blankets to keep him warm and comfortable. Dr. Greek took Minky in and he went right into surgery, while we went back home to play with the other furkids and to await news of the outcome of Minky’s surgery. Ferrets have two adrenal glands and as any ferret owner who’s been through surgery with their ferret will tell you – you hope and pray that the adrenal gland that needs to be removed will be the ferrets left gland. This one is easier to remove, and has fewer complications than the right side gland since the right side gland is in very close proximity to the vena cava. One tiny nick during surgery and the ferret will almost always bleed out on the surgeon’s operating table. Luckily, Minky’s problem was with his left gland so it was removed without complications. The next day, we were told to come and get Minky who was recovering from the surgery. No other masses or problems were found while the surgical procedure was being performed.

Over the course of the next few days, Minky started to go downhill. He didn’t want to drink, and he didn’t want to eat. The surgery was taking its toll on our new little bald guy. Since we’d never dealt with a ferret that wasn’t eating or drinking before, and didn’t know how to force feed or administer subcutaneous fluids (fluids administered via hypodermic needle under the skin) – we rushed back to our vet who took Minky in and gave him ‘round the clock care until he was strong enough, and had the will again to survive. More than a week passed, and Minky still wasn’t well enough to come home. My wife and I visited Minky whenever we could – to let him know that he wasn’t alone. The vet’s staff lavished affection on Minky too, and slowly – he began to improve. Eventually, we brought Minky home and got to know him.

Three months later, my wife and I decided to take a short vacation to New York and since Minky was doing better and had perked up a lot from what he had been like when we first laid eyes on him, we left our daughter to care for him. . After our much-needed vacation, we came home to a surprise! –Minky had a very fine growth of very dark hair all over his body! –Minky was going to be a furkid again! Over the course of the next two months, Minky grew in all of his fur again – and his happy disposition shined through where once had been a shadow of tired acceptance of his fate. Minky became the sweetest ferret we had ever been around and we learned that rescuing ferrets can be the most rewarding and nerve-racking experience ever.

Over the two years that Minky has been with us, there have been many ferrets that we have come into contact with, who needed emergency care, and a loving, forever home. Many have had situations that were drastically worse than Minky’s original condition. Because of this, my wife and I have never stopped trying to learn all that we can to help ferrets in distress. We are active in legalization activities, and work with several organizations to help furkids whenever possible. Why? –It all started with Minky.

Yesterday morning, Minky left us to go to a place where he will always have fur and will have the energy to play all day and sleep where it’s warm and comfortable at the rainbow bridge. His old body will be young again and he’ll never know what it means to be old again. He’s given us more than we could have ever asked for in a pet – even though we didn’t know him his whole life. –We were taught to trust in animals and never give up on them, even when they’ve given up on themselves. I wish that he could live forever with us, but with a heavy heart, we know that it was his time to go. After Dr. Tom gave Minks the shot that would peacefully end his life, Dr. Tom placed Minky into my arms which had a soft flannel blankie draped over them. I sat down and through the tears, told Minky that it was okay to go to the bridge. He looked up at me and lifted his head and licked at the lower part of my eyelid that was stained with tears as if to say thank you. He then laid his head back into my arm, and his breathing slowed until he was gone.

Today, we rescued two more that needed a loving forever home and in your name buddy - they were already homed where they will always receive the attention and love and care that they need.

Minks - you were the first of many. You were always our special baby boy no matter how old you really were. To the best of our knowledge, you were a little more than 8-1/2 years old. You have outlived the time we had hoped to provide a happy life for you, and now you can rest in peace little man.

Mommy & Daddy will always love you Minks - and we’ll see you again one day.

Minky Minks

Born in 1998
Loved by Us since August, 2005
Waiting at Rainbow Bridge since November, 2007


YpS2vouyJuM


To learn more about Ferret Adrenal Disease – please visit Ferret Universe’s page at: http://www.ferret-universe.com/health/adrenal.asp

Bruno
11-04-2007, 04:15 PM
That was a touching story. I am sorry for your loss.

It is amazing what a difference ONE person can make in a life.
I hope your pain passes quickly and your memories never fade.

Patriotgirl
11-04-2007, 04:20 PM
That was beautiful, Dook on little one, dook on, My thought and prayers are with you and all the wonderful things you do for all of furkids everywhere.

Colleen
11-04-2007, 04:41 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. When talking to BMama on the phone last March before Zoie passed, I could hear the love in her voice as she spoke with Minky. I know the pain you both are feeling and I hope it eases as the days pass. What you do in the name of Minks is wonderful and I'm proud to know you.
Dook and dance with wild abandon Sir Minky, we all love you. ----Auntie Colleen:wub:

Megawee
11-04-2007, 04:54 PM
I never have the right words at these moments. Minky was loved and his little drop in the ocean has started a tidal wave that will affect thousands in so many ways. Dance on Minky and know that you carry much love with you to the Bridge.

KD & BMama you will be close in my thoughts. The two of you do a wonderful thing in the way that you honor your Minks.

ferretzrule
11-04-2007, 05:28 PM
Even though this was not unexpected, my heart is still breaking for you KD and BM. I think anyone who ever held Minky fell instantly in love with him, such a love bug he was. I'm sorry I'm not there for you right now. Please know how much I love you both and hurt for you right now. :(

Happy dooks and wild dances Sir Minky, forever and ever :love2:

karybear
11-04-2007, 05:52 PM
Oh my gosh i just read this... im soo sorry BM and KD...Rest in Peace Mr. Minkey...

Misskitz
11-04-2007, 06:21 PM
That was so touching, KD. Dook on Minky forever and ever.

Luvfuzzy
11-04-2007, 06:33 PM
Thank you for sharing that wonderful story of Minky. At least he had a wonderful life once you found him. I am sorry for your loss. But now he can dance on at the bridge.

JuniorsMommy
11-04-2007, 09:04 PM
Dear Mr. Minky,

It is thru teary eyes and with a hurting heart that I write this. I know how you are no longer old or hurting,that you are full of soft fuzzy fur again, but we who know and love you will miss you forever. You will always hold a very special place in my heart.You were such a love bug who loved being held & loved soupie......I am thankful that I got to be an Auntie to such a sweet & loving little old man.... Auntie JM.....

KD & BM you know my heart is hurting for you both right now.I honestly feel like I lost one of my own kids too....I love you both a whole lot and am here for you if you need me for anything I am only a phone call away....JM

KokosDaddy
11-04-2007, 09:51 PM
Thank you all, its been a very rough weekend... you are all wonderful ferrents and I and BMama appreciate your thoughts about Minky...

I stayed up tonight and got Minky's memorial up, and added it to the first post.

LuckysJ
11-04-2007, 10:40 PM
BM and KD I am so sorry about Minky. Take comfort in the fact that he is whole and waiting for you. He loves you and looks down on you both and is proud of the fact that you two are caring for any ferret who needs you. You'll meet again. I know it hurts, but it will get better. I'm so sorry for you loss.

bobsmom
11-05-2007, 12:09 AM
we are so thankful for BM and KD. And for Minky who started it all. Say hello to Kicaha and Bindi for me fuzzy guy. Luv ya both.
bobsmom:flowers:

Herc's Mama
11-05-2007, 03:16 AM
Minky's memorial was Wonderful thank you for sharing it ... Minky please say hello to Hercules and all our loved ones for me and everyone i know you will be great pals *hugs KD and BMama

Nikaila
11-05-2007, 03:24 AM
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, KD and BM. I bet right now, Minky is having a big bowl of soupie and looking better than ever. And he knows that next time he sees you, you'll be together forever.

Thorsmemory
11-05-2007, 03:25 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. I know Minky crossed the bridge knowing TRUE love and devotion.

Dook on Minky.

Sasy
11-05-2007, 03:28 AM
What a beautiful tribute to Minky!

I am sorry for your loss, I have thought about you guys all weekend. Minky is dancing now and feeling good. He will be forever remembered for showing you guys the way to rescuing in our hearts always.

Meeko
11-05-2007, 03:41 AM
Minky Minks' story is truly beautiful. Thank you for sharing it with us. Your great love for him is so obvious,

Dook on Minky

Bill&Jenn
11-05-2007, 03:43 AM
I am also very sorry for your loss. There is nothing i can say to make thngs better but know your both in my thoughts.

Dook on Minky Dook on. (((((((((Minky))))))))))))))

Phil
11-05-2007, 04:34 AM
so beautiful...so touching. what a wonderful tribute to a wonderful little ferret.

WEZIESMOM
11-05-2007, 06:34 AM
I am so sorry to hear of your great loss KD and BMama. Minky will be missed by all. That was a beautiful tribute KD. We keep those that we lose in this lifetime forever in our hearts. Minky will be waiting for you at the bridge so that you can spend eternity together. ((((Dook on dear little man))). KD and Bmama extra special hugs from me and my furkids.

BadgersMama
11-05-2007, 07:29 AM
I've tried to stay away from this thread because my heart is still so very broken. I keep finding myself doing things for him, and he's not there. I miss you my dear sweet friend. I will always remember everything you taught me, and then some.

Dance on my baby... be free and whole again.

Colleen
11-05-2007, 07:32 AM
When I saw the video, I actually had tears dropping on to my shirt. I'm thinking of both you and KD. My heart goes out to you.

BadgersMama
11-05-2007, 07:34 AM
When I saw the video, I actually had tears dropping on to my shirt. I'm thinking of both you and KD. My heart goes out to you.
Thank you Colleen.

mayhemkb
11-05-2007, 08:20 AM
I know I am new here. But in the short time I have been on this forum I have heard a lot about Mr Minky. I understand how special he is to you guys and I am so sorry to hear of his passing.

I have you 2 in my thoughts and prayers.

BadgersMama
11-05-2007, 11:11 AM
KD & BM you know my heart is hurting for you both right now.I honestly feel like I lost one of my own kids too....I love you both a whole lot and am here for you if you need me for anything I am only a phone call away....JM

Thank you for being with us and Minky during this difficult time, we love you dearly!

g&k's_mom
11-05-2007, 11:17 AM
Dear Sweet Minky and Family you will be Missed, Auntie D & Uncle J will treasure the time we spent with you.You can run and play with the other Fuzzies in Rainbow Bridge. We will miss you Sweet Minky. Love You Sweetheart. I cried when I viewed the tribute to Minky that was a awsome tribute to such a wonderful Little man. Minky knew he was truly Loved by all. g&k'smom

BadgersMama
11-05-2007, 11:27 AM
Dear Sweet Minky and Family you will be Missed, Auntie D & Uncle J will treasure the time we spent with you.You can run and play with the other Fuzzies in Rainbow Bridge. We will miss you Sweet Minky. Love You Sweetheart. I cried when I viewed the tribute to Minky that was a awsome tribute to such a wonderful Little man. Minky knew he was truly Loved by all. g&k'smom

Thanks "D"... he loved being held by you! He will never be forgotten!

Phil
11-05-2007, 11:29 AM
i know you were a wonderful mom to little minky. peopled like you and KD are very rare.

BadgersMama
11-05-2007, 11:38 AM
i know you were a wonderful mom to little minky. peopled like you and KD are very rare.
Thank you Phil. The hardest part about this is catching myself getting things for him as I said in my post above. I caught myself asking KD to come up stairs and give “Minky” his meds... What I was trying to say was come upstairs and give Shadow his meds. Looking at his empty cage is so hard. You get into a routine when you have so many to take care of, and I have to learn to break that routine... like getting home faster than fast because Minky is waiting at home for me to feed him, or waking up early on the weekends to be sure Minks had his soupie. I know in time my routine will fall back into place minus the steps I use to take to make sure Minky was taken care of... it's just doing it and catching myself doing it is what is killing me!

Phil
11-05-2007, 11:59 AM
Thank you Phil. The hardest part about this is catching myself getting things for him as I said in my post above. I caught myself asking KD to come up stairs and give “Minky” his meds... What I was trying to say was come upstairs and give Shadow his meds. Looking at his empty cage is so hard. You get into a routine when you have so many to take care of, and I have to learn to break that routine... like getting home faster than fast because Minky is waiting at home for me to feed him, or waking up early on the weekends to be sure Minks had his soupie. I know in time my routine will fall back into place minus the steps I use to take to make sure Minky was taken care of... it's just doing it and catching myself doing it is what is killing me!

that must be very hard for you. judy and i would more than likely be doing the same thuing if it were bandit.

please take solace in knowing Minky lived a very long life for a ferret, and that he had love and caring when it mattered most.

BadgersMama
11-05-2007, 12:37 PM
Sigh....

Thorsmemory
11-05-2007, 12:45 PM
Awww. I can feel your heart breaking. I am so, so sorry. BMama and KD, I hope I can be half the ferrent you two are.

JuniorsMommy
11-05-2007, 03:44 PM
Thank you for being with us and Minky during this difficult time, we love you dearly!


Your very very very welcome and Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your, KD, Minky's and all my nieces and nephews lives & for letting me be there with you in this very difficult time....I guess I never realized how special all my nieces and nephews are to me. I never expected Minky's passing to hit me so very hard. I knew it would hit you & KD extremely hard. I have been doing some things today and unable to stop thinking about Minky or you & KD...


KD - I love the video you made of Mr. Minky! It is a really beautiful video......

spooky13
11-05-2007, 08:11 PM
Oh Kd BM! I'm so sorry! I'll pray for Minky, and you two tonight. I know for a fact Minky had an excellent life with you, and i'm sure he's up there right now, dancing, and dooking as he waits for his mommy, and daddy...

jorgecastilla_mdc
11-05-2007, 08:48 PM
The decease of Minky made me cry so much... I'm so sorry for your loss, KD and BM. But let me tell you that you made a big turn in Minky's life. The last two years of his fuzzy life were the happiest ones. And I admire that, and I bet you Minky loved you more than nobody for those years.

If we would have more people like you, we probably won't have that many unhappy, unhealthy and mistreatred or abused ferrets. They are so lovely! I had to say something... And now at least Minky is hoping to meet you again at the Rainbow Bridge, totally healed and healthy. God bless you, KD and BM!

BadgersMama
11-06-2007, 08:18 AM
Good morning my dear sweet man! Mama just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you. Hugs and kisses Sir Minky!

KokosDaddy
11-06-2007, 01:17 PM
It will get better Mama, I promise... he should be home again soon and we can rest his ashes.

Colleen
11-06-2007, 01:20 PM
It will get better Mama, I promise... he should be home again soon and we can rest his ashes.
This is giving me so many memories......my heart goes out to you.

BadgersMama
11-06-2007, 02:22 PM
It will get better Mama, I promise... he should be home again soon and we can rest his ashes.
It will get better... thank you for being such a wonderful Daddy to our kids. I'm sure when Minky comes back home things will start feeling a little normal (for the lack of a better word). I love you baby...

BadgersMama
11-06-2007, 02:28 PM
The decease of Minky made me cry so much... I'm so sorry for your loss, KD and BM. But let me tell you that you made a big turn in Minky's life. The last two years of his fuzzy life were the happiest ones. And I admire that, and I bet you Minky loved you more than nobody for those years.

If we would have more people like you, we probably won't have that many unhappy, unhealthy and mistreatred or abused ferrets. They are so lovely! I had to say something... And now at least Minky is hoping to meet you again at the Rainbow Bridge, totally healed and healthy. God bless you, KD and BM!

JC - thank you for your kind words. As I read all the kind posts about Minky and to KD and me, it helps my heart heal a tad bit more. He was a super boy that's for sure!

BadgersMama
11-06-2007, 04:21 PM
I told some of you today while in the chat room about the "trunk" KD got me for our kids ashes. This is where Minks will be placed when he returns home.

Thorsmemory
11-06-2007, 05:05 PM
That is very nice. I love the carvings.

Phil
11-06-2007, 05:09 PM
that'
s a beautiful resting place.

Colleen
11-06-2007, 05:36 PM
That's beautiful.

LISAR
11-07-2007, 06:00 AM
BM & KD,

I always stink at trying to console someone. I never have what I think are the right words. But I will say, Im very proud to have been a little part of his life here at LF. He maybe gone but will never be forgotten in my thoughts and dreams.
Big hugs and kisses to you both. The Minkster couldnt have asked for a better home full of love and life that you both had blessed him with.

I hope that everyone takes the time to read your story. This is a reminder of how precious life really is. Not just for people but for all life, and how fulfilling it can be to save and nurture even one of lifes littlest creatures.

Bless you both BM and KD

The sun will forever shine on our Minkster.
I will miss you buddy.

(ps: Hey Minky, My Grandpa is going to take care of the hiney pinchin up there, hes promised to give you one just from me!:blush: )


Blessed Be
Lisar
xxxxxx
OOOOO

KokosDaddy
11-07-2007, 08:03 AM
Thanks you Lisa, and everyone.

Lisa, that was very touching - thanks for that. Please tell your Grandpa that Minks likes his soupie nice & warm, and gets antsy if its not ready when he wants it...

Hugs...

KokosDaddy
11-10-2007, 07:30 PM
FYI - Minky came home yesterday. We laid his ashes to rest inside the big carved chest I bought for BMama...

Our family, no matter what form is together again.

g&k's_mom
11-11-2007, 10:08 AM
KD that chest is Beautiful. Sir Minky knows he was loved by all. I sure miss him.Dook on Sir Minky.

JuniorsMommy
11-11-2007, 10:30 AM
I am glad to hear that Sir Minky is safe at home again!


Auntie has been thinking alot about you little mister! I surely do miss your cuddles and the way you just soaked up all the lovin & kisses you could get......Dook and dance forever Mr. Minky....Auntie Loves you.....

BadgersMama
11-12-2007, 01:47 PM
Minky,

Today is the 9th day since you left for the Rainbow Bridge. I sure do miss you, but I know your dooking up a storm, have a wonderful coat and no pain now. Can you do mama a favor and go find HMs Pixal..... She’s new to the Rainbow Bridge as well.

I love you, there's not a day that goes by that I don't think about you!

-Mama

ferretmommy
11-14-2007, 10:41 PM
I told some of you today while in the chat room about the "trunk" KD got me for our kids ashes. This is where Minks will be placed when he returns home.

This is sooo beautiful. I miss all of you- especially Sir Minky and now Rufus. THey will always be dancing and dooking for us.:flowers: :angel: :love2:

kim
11-16-2007, 07:31 AM
I am so very sorry KD and BM for the lose of little minky, my heart goes out to you both.

BadgersMama
11-28-2007, 11:46 AM
Just dropping by Minks thread to say Hi to him! I love you little man.

Phil
11-28-2007, 03:45 PM
that's lovely. very sad, but lovely.

Bandie Bear MAMA
12-03-2007, 05:38 PM
im tearing up i was wondering how he was now i kno..[hugs] to Bmama and KD..i did lov Mr Minky...i kno hes in heaven now with all his fur and playing..sooo sorry..smooches huggggs..

BadgersMama
12-04-2007, 09:18 AM
im tearing up i was wondering how he was now i kno..[hugs] to Bmama and KD..i did lov Mr Minky...i kno hes in heaven now with all his fur and playing..sooo sorry..smooches huggggs..

Thank you BBM. We miss him so much, but know that his spirit lives in our hearts and here on LF. He touched many people, and many people feel the sadness we feel. He's a wonderful little man indeed.

BadgersMama
12-11-2007, 08:48 AM
Just came by to tell my little man I was thinking of him.

mayhemkb
12-11-2007, 09:06 AM
I always like to think that we think of the departed when they think of us. I bet he is thinking of you and sending Dancies your way. . .

Herc's Mama
12-11-2007, 04:06 PM
~Dook On Sir Minky ~

Colleen
12-11-2007, 05:12 PM
Well.....I think he is doing more than just thinking of you.....I think he's looking at you every day and dancing with excitement at the sight of you!:wub:

BadgersMama
12-11-2007, 06:42 PM
Well.....I think he is doing more than just thinking of you.....I think he's looking at you every day and dancing with excitement at the sight of you!:wub:
I sure hope so Colleen.

BadgersMama
12-27-2007, 11:20 AM
Minks,

It's been nearly 2 months since you left for the Rainbow Bridge.... I still find myself calling out your name when your crazy brothers and sisters are out causing a muck. You remember how crazy they were... LOL

Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that Daddy and I are now able to talk about you without crying so much. We laugh at all the little silly things you use to do.

I love you my little man!

Mama

Phil
12-27-2007, 03:01 PM
Minks,

It's been nearly 2 months since you left for the Rainbow Bridge.... I still find myself calling out your name when your crazy brothers and sisters are out causing a muck. You remember how crazy they were... LOL

Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that Daddy and I are now able to talk about you without crying so much. We laugh at all the little silly things you use to do.

I love you my little man!

Mama

that's so touching. so sweet and touching. i can tell how much you loved him.

teacher333
12-30-2007, 07:21 PM
I have not been on the site in a while, and I am so sorry to hear about your loss of Minky Minks I am so sorry to hear it. He was truly loved and could not have been in a better home for the remainder of his time. Your video collage was beautiful!

BadgersMama
02-18-2008, 12:11 PM
This is the one place I know I can go and watch Minkys video and cry. Time has helped my heart heal, but every time I hear his song or see a picture of him I break down crying.
I still miss you Minks! I hope you and Lucy have found each other again....

-Mama

rissadoo
02-18-2008, 04:36 PM
Thats a very sad story but very touching:o

BadgersMama
08-28-2008, 07:51 AM
Thinking of you my Sir Minky.

http://i34.photobucket.com/albums/d107/SCINFERNL/PETS/MinkyYawn-1.jpg

http://i34.photobucket.com/albums/d107/SCINFERNL/PETS/DSC00205.jpg

http://i34.photobucket.com/albums/d107/SCINFERNL/PETS/bigbabyMinky.jpg

Colleen
08-28-2008, 01:01 PM
So sweet........